Shocking: This mother forced her daughter to have sex with her father

A mother, who forced her daughter to have sex with her and her husband, said that she “hates” herself for her crimes. In a heartbreaking episode of Dr. Phil an incestuous child abuse survivor confronted her biological mother, who plied her with alcohol
from the age of 11, to make her have sex with the pair of them.
Speaking 20 years after the horrific abuse, Amanda told her heartbreaking story after her parents made her pose for sexual photos and videotaped their sexual encounters with a view
to sell them online.

A tearful Justine said.
“I know I made poor choices,”
“My innocence was stolen from me,”
Amanda told her mother when she
confronted her on the show.
“In what parallel universe does a mother watch her daughter performing a sex act on her husband and her father?” Dr. Phil questioned Justine.
In 1996, Justine and Amanda's biological father Jim were charged with sexual assault and exploitation of their then 13-year-old biological
daughter, Amanda. Both pleaded guilty and received sentences of 20 years in prison. My parents forced me to have sex with them,”
Amanda said on the show, revealing that she was given rewards and her mother showed her how to 'enjoy' sex.
“Justine would show me how good sex would feel by having sex in front of me with my father,” she said.

Afterwards, it was a normal night, dessert, brush my teeth and bedtime,” Amanda explained, adding that she was threatened if she told anyone about their secret. It’s been 20
years since that nightmare ended, but it’s still hard to grasp the idea that they are out of prison,” she said.

I don’t think I’ve ever received a real
apology from Jim,” Amanda explained, she also added that he had got in touch with her through Facebook but claimed that he was “manipulative” so ended that relationship.


Speaking on the show, Justine suggested that it had been her then-husband's idea and she had initially fought him for three months but 'gave in'.

“Jim found out how much money could be made from child pornography,” she said. “If I could take it all back I would. I hate myself for what I did.” Jim has branded his ex-wife a liar and said that she had been willing in their heinous plot. He will
appear on the Dr. Phil show on Thursday and will explain why he had sex with his own daughter.

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How to keep a long distance relationship

Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. Nobody says it is going to be easy ,the extra distance makes many things unachievable. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things the sweetest, being able to hold the other person’s hand, eating together at the same table, feeling each other’s touch, taking a walk together, smelling each other’s hair… these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long distance relationship.
Maintaining a relationship takes hard work and dedication from both parties but when they are hundreds or thousands of miles apart, keeping a romance going becomes even more difficult.
Here are some tips you should make use of:

Communication
Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Greet each other “good morning” and “good night” every day — this is a must. On top of that, try to update your partner on your life and its happening.
So simple, yet so true. How often you talk is up to you. My boyfriend and I talk everyday, pretty much all day until one of us goes to bed. We generally Skype once every 2 weeks or so. We never explicitly stated that we must talk everyday and Skype every other weekend; it developed naturally. We simply enjoy filling each other in on our day and anything exciting or stressful we have coming
up. Communicating as often as we do helps build the closeness that each of us needs.

Trust each other
There are moments of jealousy and
insecurity in even the most secure
relationships. However, every perceived slight or twinge of envy will be magnified in a long-distance relationship. The last things you want to do while you’re apart is spend your time obsessively checking his Facebook page or fretting about what
he’s doing if he doesn’t respond to your texts quickly enough. If you don’t trust your partner or know you have jealous tendencies, you might want to reconsider if a LDR is really right for you.

Make time to see
Visits are the highlight of every long
distance relationship. After all the
waiting and yearning and abstinence,
you finally get to meet each other to
fulfill all the little things like kissing,
holding hands, etc. which are all
common to other couples but so very
special and extra intimate for people
in long distance relationships. It will
be like fireworks, confetti, rainbows and butterflies everywhere.

Talk dirty with each other
Sexual tension is undoubtedly one of the most important things between
couples. Sexual desire is like a glue
that keeps both parties from drifting
apart. Not only is sex a biological
need, it is an emotional one as well.
Keep the flames burning by sending
each other teasing texts filled with
sexual innuendos and provocative
descriptions. Sexy puns work pretty
well too.

Send photos and short videos often
There are even smartphone apps that allow long-distance couples to share photos, videos, send voice messages, and more. Taking photos throughout your day, and sending
them instantly is a quick and easy way to share your daily experiences. It also adds to the transparency of your daily life, which is a key factor in keeping trust alive.

Ways to love your wife unconditionally

Never compare your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you.

Be gentle and accommodating, she has sacrificed so much to be with you. Its hurt her deeply when you are harsh and irritating.

Do not share her affection with another woman.

Do not speak evil of her to anyone, your wife will become who you call her.

Don't shout at your wife when talking.

Hide nothing from her, you are now one and she is your helpmate, let there be no secret you are keeping from her.

Don't make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies.

Don't let her body determine her worth, cherish and appreciate her.

Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, its a great sacrifice.

Spend time with her to do bible study and pray.

Make time to play with her and enjoy her company, laugh at her jokes both funny and boring ones.

Never use money to manipulate or control her.

Do not expose her weakness, you will be exposing yourself too.

Never cease to tell her how much you love her, women are never tired of hearing that.

My relationship with JJC Skills my business – Funke Akindele

Nollywood actress, Funke Akindele, has opened up on her relationship with popular rapper, born Abdul Rasheed Bello, fondly called JJC Skillz.

Funke, who was formerly married to Kehinde Oloyede, had been rumoured to be in a romantic relationship with Skillz, a single father who has three ‘babymamas’ and three kids.
However, in a recent chat with the Punch, the comic actress, on the alleged relationship with the artist said she knows exactly what was good for her and that her private life had no business with the public.

She said, “I really don’t like discussing my private life anymore because it pays to keep that part of your life secret.

“A lot of people are watching and sometimes you read a lot of negative comments about you which could make you want to derail, so it is better to keep matters of the heart close to the heart.
“I am the one in it and I know what is good for me.
“I am sorry I don’t want to talk about anything that has to do with my private life,” the ‘I need to know’ thespian quipped.